1 – Love your husband with all that you are.
He should have no doubt that you love him more than any other man on this earth. Loving your man start with respecting your man.
I personally am willing to do what it takes for my man to know I love him because he and our marriage union is just that important to me.
2 – Be your husbands BIGGEST cheerleader.
No women should be out cheering you not even his momma or your daughters and especially not some women he works with.
Whether he is reaching for his dreams or down in the dumps, it’s your voice he should hear right after Gods, cheering him on.
3 – Make passionate love to your husband regularly.
This is where the rubber meets the road for many if you. You might be sucking your teeth and ready to close the browser page, but this is where we separate the little girls from the women.
Desiring our husbands physically is GODLY and pleasing one another is encouraged in scripture. Withholding physically intimacy is detrimental to your marriage and it’s exactly what Satan wants us to do.
You do what you want in your marriage but don’t say I didn’t tell you.
4 – Cleave to your husband.
Listen up because this one is really important. Cleaving to your husband will strengthen the marital bond. My husband and I spend a lot of time together.
We’ve structured our lives so that we spend more waking hours together than apart.
That is a priority for us.
When we are together we are constantly learning more about one another and growing together in our knowledge of God.
Cleaving forces you to sharpen each other and become one. Some ways my husband and I cultivate oneness are:
We go to bed together. We don’t stay awake pursuing hobbies and we’ve structured our life so that neither of us have to work beyond our bedtime.
We eat most of our meals together when we are home together.
We share in each others hobbies. Neither of us could care any less about the others hobbies. What we are concerned with is how good it makes the other feel and how it’s helping them pursue their interest.