It’s so easy to become cynical, condescending and critical in marriage but that’s not the way God intends for His sons and daughters to live.
He gave a perfect example of oneness in Him, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Instead of being at odds with your husband why don’t you make a choice.
Choose to build him up.
Choose to be Godly in what you say and do for him. It’s hard, especially if your heart is growing colder toward him, but I can testify that God can take a broken and bitter heart and make it love again.
What was it that stood out or attracted you to your husband when you were dating?