Yelling as a communication style is a very real thing. The thing about yelling is that as Christ followers we don’t typically go around broadcasting to people that we lose it with our families.
That behavior is kept under wraps. We put on our best voices in public, but become totally different people at home. That should not be so. Yelling as a form of communication was one of the biggest battles I ever had to fight. I broke the curse off of my life and will help you do the same.
If y’all are like me, you’ve prayed and maybe even fasted trying to rid your self of this terrible habit but are perplexed as to why it won’t stop. I know the struggle because I’ve been where you are. I’ve said hurtful words to not just my husband, but my kids too. It got to the point where I was ridden with guilt and refused to go on being a wife and mom who yelled. I took some drastic but practical steps which I’ll be sharing with y’all this month here on my blog, my Facebook page and You Tube channel. Here’s one of the videos that will encourage and empower you in your fight.
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We have a true enemy and a true Savior. One’s sole purpose is to ensure we remain in uttter darkness while the other made the ultimate sacrifice for us the live in the light of God.
In this lifetime we will be given the opportunity to decide where we want to dwell. I’ve personally lived both and have made an intentional decision to live in and fight to find Gods light everyday. Finding and living in God’s light isn’t a one time decision.
It’s an ‘every morning when I wake up decision’. It’s a ‘moment by moment’ and ‘situation by situation’ decision. Satan wants us to choose the darkness (or sinful decsions), while God wants us to choose the light or (holy decisions).
Are you prepared for marital warfare? The enemy wants to destroy Christ centered marriages. The enemy wants to destroy YOUR marriage and will accomplish that goal by any means necessary. He will try and use your husband, children, finances, family and friends.
When your marriage is facing dark moments how will you respond? Without a Christ focused plan, married couples end up fighting the wrong battles against the wrong enemy, but I have some solutions to help you navigate this area.
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— The BIG battle I fought for my marriage over the last 5 days and how my battle can help your marriage.
— Marital Mindset Shift: How to renew your mind, prepare and fight effectively for your marriage.
— Strategies for Marital Warfare | How to Fight in the Spirit for your marriage!
— Creating a new future for your marriage.
This series is going to help you fortify your marriage against attacks and give you tools to make your marriage bond stronger.
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There is no magic pill we can take to ensure everything goes right in our day. In fact, things will probably go wrong just because we want them to go right. We can’t control every part of our day, but what we can control is us.
We get to decide how we respond to every situation that comes our way and God has equipped us with everything we need to handle those situations.
Just this morning I struggled with telling my husband something I wanted to do. I knew he wouldn’t agree with it so I avoided bringing it up. I didn’t want him to be frustrated and I didn’t want to become frustrated, but it was time to get it out in the open.
Before brining up the conversation I knew had the potential of escalating I declared a few things.
We were in a bad place. Arguments in marriage is what was tearing us apart and with every new one came new cracks in our foundation.
My marriage was falling apart and I didn’t know how to fix it. We argued and yelled constantly and I was fed up. I knew I had to do something drastic or throw in the towel. I saw how arguments in marriage were hurting our relationship, but didn’t know how to stop. That’s when I gave up and gave it over to God and He showed me how to be a better communicator in my marriage.
It’s hard trying to navigate life without proper instructions. We pretty much go through trial and error trying to figure out what works and what doesn’t. As Christians, that’s not Gods best for us.
He has prepared the way for us and provides us with all of the instruction we need in scripture and by seeking the wisdom of other believers. The two sources of wisdom work in tandem to help us make better decisions in all aspects of life including being single.
We don’t have to struggle with trying to live holy as single women or with trying to identify a potential husband. God has laid it all out for us in scripture.