What to do when God won’t make you stop yelling at your family

What to do when God won't make you stop yelling at your familyYelling as a communication style is a very real thing. The thing about yelling is that as Christ followers we don’t typically go around broadcasting to people that we lose it with our families.

That behavior is kept under wraps. We put on our best voices in public, but become totally different people at home. That should not be so. Yelling as a form of communication was one of the biggest battles I ever had to fight. I broke the curse off of my life and will help you do the same.

If y’all are like me, you’ve prayed and maybe even fasted trying to rid your self of this terrible habit but are perplexed as to why it won’t stop. I know the struggle because I’ve been where you are. I’ve said hurtful words to not just my husband, but my kids too. It got to the point where I was ridden with guilt and refused to go on being a wife and mom who yelled. I took some drastic but practical steps which I’ll be sharing with y’all this month here on my blog, my Facebook page and You Tube channel. Here’s one of the videos that will encourage and empower you in your fight.

Watch today’s video to learn what to do when God won’t make you stop yelling at your family.

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The Fight of Your Life | Strategies for Biblical Warfare in Marriage

Are you prepared for marital warfare? The enemy wants to destroy Christ centered marriages. The enemy wants to destroy YOUR marriage and will accomplish that goal by any means necessary. He will try and use your husband, children, finances, family and friends.

When your marriage is facing dark moments how will you respond? Without a Christ focused plan, married couples end up fighting the wrong battles against the wrong enemy, but I have some solutions to help you navigate this area.

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— The BIG battle I fought for my marriage over the last 5 days and how my battle can help your marriage.

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— Creating a new future for your marriage.

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We were in a bad place. Arguments in marriage is what was tearing us apart and with every new one came new cracks in our foundation.

My marriage was falling apart and I didn’t know how to fix it. We argued and yelled constantly and I was fed up. I knew I had to do something drastic or throw in the towel. I saw how arguments in marriage were hurting our relationship, but didn’t know how to stop. That’s when I gave up and gave it over to God and He showed me how to be a better communicator in my marriage.

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Sometimes we have to let go and let God especially when it comes to our husband’s. When we allow God to work on our men, He is able to transform their heart and renew their minds better than nagging could ever do.

Put your trust in God and believe that He is able to make your husband the man He so desires.

The best way to help your man mature into the man that God desires os to do the following.

 

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I posed a question on Facebook asking what is the hardest part of being a wife and many of you said, submission.

The biggest struggle was with submitting when you perceive your husband is making the wrong decision. This is very hard for women who view themselves as intelligent and capable. In fact, it will be contradictory to every fiber of your being to submit to a decision you think will be detrimental.Prayer for Husbands Wisdom

So how do we submit when we are absolutely sure our husbands leadership lacks wisdom?

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Hubby Journal Tour #WriteLoveChallengeHi you guys! Did you watch my Hubby Journal video? Isn’t that just an amazing idea?

I’m so glad I decided to share it with you. It has truly been a blessing and inspiration in my marriage. If you follow me on Instagram under Saidah Washington or ApronsAndStilletos, you know I have a February Hubby Journal challenge going.

It’s called the #WriteLoveChallenge created by Monika from @Mon_Creates and is designed to inspire ideas for daily Hubby Journal entries.

When Monica saw my video it inspired her to put together the challenge.

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I was getting ready to get on YouTube and answer some of the questions you girls have been leaving in the comments when I remembered I never shared my “Hubby Journal” video with you.

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Those of you who are subscribed to my channel got a sneak peek and have already started your journals. Yay for you!! 

How to Create a Hubby Journal?

I have been so blessed by using mine and inspired when I see how you girls have been using yours.

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